Wednesday, September 7, 2016

Searching for the elusive "Chic Mom Look"

As a mom one of my biggest struggles, that is, aside from the whole "raising tiny humans who are expected to grow up into productive members of society and decent contributors to humanity" part of the gig, is achieving the elusive 'chic mom look.'   You know the one, you've seen it at the mall, the playground, and maybe even Starbucks.  Let's be real for a second; most days I'd rather a pair of stretchy yoga pants and a racer back tank with a wise-ass phrase across the front then face the dreaded process of dolling myself up with a four year old and a one year old. 

Yes, I know, I can wake up earlier than my kids to get ready; but then I get less sleep and well, it's just better for humanity if that's not the case.  Just trust me on that one.

Anyway, once in a while the 'homeless yoga instructor' look (as Ms. Laditan puts it), doesn't cut it and I have to go the extra mile.  And to be fair, as much as I have to pull some creative maneuvering to go from 'mystery-fluid-on-my-shirt' to tres chic, the way I'm dressed does affect my mood for the day.  There's just something about tackling the day in clothes that make you feel good, am I right, ladies?

That being said, I have found quite a gem in these two sister stores in Fresno; Ooh La La and LOLA.  From my birthday weekend in Vegas, to a documentary screening in LA last week, to a creative lunch meeting today; they've turned me into an "OohLaLa Girl."

These are my current favorite looks so far:

This bodysuit and shorts combo from Ooh La La was the perfect solution to the Vegas heat
This is what happens when you give a dancer a bathtub photo op after watching Zumanity...




This pinstriped jumpsuit was so comfy yet chic
If you go to Vegas; get creative with your photos!
Such a fan of this neon pink romper!




The Katherine Hepburn classic look for the documentary screening


This skirt was perfect for an effortless and comfy look; also perfectly complemented the ambience at the Literati Cafe in Santa Monica

How cool is the decor at this place? I think I found my version of heaven...




Do you have any go-to fashions? Share away!

Thursday, October 11, 2012

Redefining Me, One Spree at a Time

Ok fine, so when I use the word "Spree" I'm actually being facetious, it's more like one article of clothing update at a time.  You see as of late, I have felt that as much as I consider myself a savvy and "in tune" Fashionista, I have been guilty of the same crime and mistake that many women commit- I have become a slave to trends and no longer been true to my unique style and more importantly, my body shape.  I have made the grave error of shopping for clothing and styles that I like on my friends or on acquaintances, except that they don't share my body type.  I see a friend wearing a pair of skinny jeans with a loosely fitted boyfriend cut tee, a long necklace, and a pair of snazzy stiletto pumps in a fabulously effortless  yet chic look and I immediately want to steal it.  However, I forget that unlike me, they are petite and their silhouette doesn't even come close to resembling mine.  I have to face the facts: I have a generous bosom, I (specially now) have hips, I don't have a Shakira 24 inch waist, and I have long limbs---I'm awkwardly shaped, therefore, a boyfriend fit tee would make me look pregnant (again) or just downright fat.  Skinny jeans don't flatter me; they hug my hips way too much and accent the fact that I have long chicken legs, creating a very unflattering lollipop effect.  So my biggest frustration has become as of late, that my tastes in fashion don't compliment my god-given (he and I will discuss that at some point...) body.  Thus, I have reached the conclusion that I need to reinvent myself by A. defining what body shape I have, B. getting rid of any unflattering clothes (hello Goodwill), which I hope to achieve with the help of my trusted BFFs and make a hopefully fun and girly event out of it, C. get back into shape post-partum (I know some of this frustration stems from my new temporary body, emphasis on 'temporary,' though it was present pre-pregnancy), and D. slowly shopping for my newfound style.  As I undergo this process, I will upkeep this blog with my progress, my findings, and perhaps if I'm up to it, some images...who knows; perhaps it'll inspire you to join me :)

This project is essentially my attempt at getting back to feeling like "Me," to feeling "sexy yet refined," to ditching the sweats, no makeup and pseudo-bun look and wearing civilian clothing on a regular basis.  This process will entail not only clothing updating but also accessories, colors, nails (primarily actually having them done on a regular basis, and after the wedding; hair (specifically a more practical yet still youthful and chic cut).  While this project might seem superficial, I would disagree.  I think it is important to not become comfortable or complacent and always seek to be the best version of yourself that you can be.  I have been very focused on fully immersing myself in my new role as a mom, and in pursuing my growth on a professional level; so I am now ensuring that in these efforts I don't abandon who I am as a woman and that I continue to feel good about myself.  Who knows, perhaps this exploration may help me discover a more deeper redefining of the self.  Our image is after all how we present ourselves to our social environment, and whether we care to admit it or not it is what we first see, what we analyze, and what we digest...

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

My Humpday with a Cherry on Top...




The weekend is only two days away, a fact that for me carries a slight sense of impending doom as it also means the LSAT is only two days away (*bites nails)- So to cheer myself up I opted to celebrate my humpday with a Cherry on top- dress, that is! :) So once again, Speedy Girl's savvy finds manage to put a smile on my face.  Normally I wouldn't opt for this color but I just ADORED the cut! :) For a more professional look at the office I paired it with an ivory cardigan, however, I also wanted to depict how darling the dress is on its own :)

Monday, September 26, 2011

Invertigo in Busy Girl


Invertigo in Busy Girl



I stepped out of the shower on Sunday evening, slipped on my “Busy Girl” dress from Speedy Girl, a pair of BCBG peep-toe pumps, put my hair in a messy French twist ornate with my delicate flower hairpin gifted by Speedy Girl.  The delightful "Busy Girl" dress is carefree both in material as well as look.  It is lightweight yet elegant, and masters the "oh this old thing I threw on 30 seconds ago" look.  A buy I do not regret at all and matched the look I wanted for our evening perfectly.  Alex, being the guy he is, quickly threw on a pair of jeans, an Oakley long-sleeve, and was ready to go.   Somewhere in the primping process I lost track of time (ahem ahem), and suddenly panicked that we wouldn’t make it Downtown in time for the performance.  I will omit the various traffic laws I broke to arrive on time…

Still buzzing with the frenzy of Los Angeles Traffic, the downtown grime, the parking search hysteria, and olfactory overload we stepped into the Los Angeles Theatre Center performance space unaware of the fact that we would be transported to a completely different world.  Two female dancers and one male dancer stood onstage while forest-like noises were played overhead.  A narration on bird behavior began to play and for a moment I recognized the excitement of my eight year old self as if I were on a school fieldtrip to the zoo or nature center—However, my eight year old self never experienced this type of learning and wonder.  In a comedic yet apt manner, the dancers began to execute choreography that depicted a Bird’s courting ritual.  The movements were an odd yet delightful myriad of ronde-du-jambes, attitude turns, pencil turns, jetes, swan-like undulations, and rapid humming-bird like hand gestures.  Soon another “male bird” appeared onstage and executed an aggressive pas de deux with the first; depicting a male standoff in competition for the female’s attention.  However, this male bird dance consisted of a series of handstands, flips, lifts, and almost capoeira-like partner work between both dancers.  Once the dominant male established itself he danced victoriously with each of his female ‘lovebirds’ in a sweet, high-spirited, and perky pas de quatre.

The second piece of the evening, Fun in Limbo, however, had a completely different feel.  The choreography explored the place “where heartbreak is suspended,” as Artistic Director Laura Karlin so eloquently put it.  The first image featured dancer SaraAnne Fahey dancing with an air of nostalgia to an old record.  Just as her movement began to pick up momentum and in intensify, Fahey would stop the record and replay the same chunk, over and over again as if trying to recapture a particular moment in time or a particular emotion evoked by a certain piece of the song.  She moved melancholically from swift floor work to infinitely long extensions and melodic, floating, pirouettes.  As the piece evolved, other characters began to arrive at this “heartbreak limbo” that choreographer, Karlin, had laid created for us.  Between the pounding drum, the beautifully longing cello and the electrifying guitar, coupled with the strong, dynamic, effortless, and whistful choreography the world created onstage by Karlin was both poetic as it was familiar.  It was a feeling that we’ve all experienced; a wish to preserve something lost; something we weren’t quite ready to loose and want to cling to…For some it’s a lover, for others a dream, it might be an era, or a stage in your life; regardless of what it is it’s an old friend we’ve all encountered before.

Sunday, September 25, 2011

Winding down Friday...





Alex and I hadn't had a date in quite sometime...  Between the wedding plans, out of town guests, work commitments and my studying for the LSAT we had neglected our outside the home couple time.  Thus, yesterday I decided to opt for an impromptu wine date.  I was already wearing a turquoise blue frock dress (one of my savvy finds at Saturday Mart) as it was casual Friday at the office, so I simply took down my girlish pony tail and straightened my hair, added a swarovski crystal bracelet, and Voila! I was ready to go.  After a nice relaxing italian dinner, we took a brisk yet lovely evening stroll down to Friends of the Vine in Redondo Beach.  For those of you who haven't been to Friends of the Vine, it is a lovely boutique wine lounge located in the picturesque Riviera Village of Redondo Beach.  Owned by a husband and wife dynamic team, at Friends of the Vine you may order tastings in 2oz, 4oz, or by the glass, or you may select a wine bottle sold onsite and they will happily open it for you to drink right then and there! Alex and I shared a delectable chocolate plate sorted with a variety of truffles, dark chocolate bits, and more which I paired with a Cotes du Rhone red and Alex paired with a Cabernet-Zinfandel fusion.  

We brought our lovely evening to a close by strolling back home snuggled together to shield from the chilled wind...well, more so for the sake of snuggling :P


Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Hump Day Bah Humbug

I awoke this morning in a frenzy; I slept through my alarm, wasn't supposed to carpool but then the Fiance informed me at 7:05am as I stepped out of my quick 3 minute shower, that he would be working in West LA today so I should still carpool with Karla which meant I had to be ready in the next 5 minutes (10 max)... I took a quick peak outside and saw that it was terribly overcast.  I grabbed a pencil skirt, black nylons, pumps and one of my new sweater finds from my Saturday excursions- quite literally threw them on and ran out the door, makeup bag in hand.... Things did not slow down upon arriving at the office.  However, in spite of the chaotic morning and gloomy emo weather, I found myself in an extremely chipper mood :) Perhaps it had something to do with my Saturday Mart find? Seriously, Ladies (and Men!) I urge you to check out Saturday Mart!!!

Here's to the Hump Day Bah Humbugs!

Monday, September 19, 2011

September Saturday Mart Shopping Excursion...

Saturday was heaven for a fashionista-bargainista like moi...Not only did I get to make a trip out to Saturday Mart, which I had been itching to do for months, but I also counted with the lovely company of my Mom.  We both are equal parts shopaholics and fab find detectives, so it suffices to say we were the proverbial children in a candy store and well, as can be expected, we went a little nuts.... However, that's the beauty of Saturday Mart...you can loose control a little and spare yourself the guilt.  Furthermore, I was able to introduce my Mom to the wonderful world of Saturday Mart, and well; she's converted. Haha. As usual, my very first stop was the Mine section where I bought an adorable maroon and navy blue polka dot chiffon blouse by Blue Bird, 2 Trench Coats; one military style in a Grey/Blue and one london mod-fashion in an ivory hue.  I found this adorable brown knitted tunic dress, perfect for the upcoming fall season.  Several sweaters that functioned for both office and casual wear found their way into my bag along with an absolutely ethereal Mine summer dress.  Yes, I realize the summer is over; however, I will not regret it when I get to begin wearing my dress in March...afterall, this Southern California.  A little yellow peasant skirt added a splash of color to my buys.  My mom found several tunic Mine shirts with adorable skinny belts :)   Mid-afternoon we met up with my fashionista conspirator, Karla for yumminess at Gigi's Cuban Bakery and Cafe  where we quite literally stuffed our faces-- As if the day wasn't perfect enough, we moosied on over to Eden Ever Bridal boutique where, drumroll please....I FOUND MY WEDDING DRESS!!!  A gorgeous french fashion inspired Essence of Australia gown that can only be described as a match made in heaven.  To complete a picture perfect outing was my trusty Speedy Girl find, "You're a Gem" mini dress, stellar in its debut :)  Below is my mini dress picture and a shot from me today on my way to work in my new Blue Bird polka dot blouse :)  I look forward to my fashionista blog growing...and I promise better images next time!